Blog #6 | Part IV: Why and How We Give Our Power Away

Too often, we unknowingly surrender our power—not because someone takes it from us, but because we allow limiting beliefs and external opinions to dictate our worth. Recognizing the ways we give our power away is the first step to reclaiming it.

1. We Hold Onto False Beliefs Shaped by Others

From a young age, we absorb messages from family, teachers, society, and past experiences. Unfortunately, many of these beliefs are not true, yet they shape how we see ourselves.

Some common limiting beliefs include:

🚫 “I’m not lovable.”

🚫 “I’m not good enough.”

🚫 “I’m not very smart.”

🚫 “I don’t deserve the promotion.”

🚫 “I’ll always be poor.”

These thoughts create an invisible barrier that keeps us from stepping into our full potential.

2. We Base Our Needs on Others’ Approval

How often do we ask ourselves, “Is this reasonable? Is this acceptable?”—not based on our own desires, but on how we believe others will respond? When we prioritize external validation over our own needs, we diminish our power.

3. We Believe Others When They Doubt Us

Sometimes, the people closest to us—friends, family, colleagues—plant seeds of doubt. Instead of supporting our ambitions, they question them:💬 “Who are you to start your own business?”💬 “Are you sure you can handle that?”💬 “That’s not realistic.”

When we internalize their skepticism, we start to believe we’re not capable. But here’s the truth: The only person who gets to decide what’s possible for you is YOU.

Awareness is the key to breaking these patterns. Ask yourself:✅ What beliefs am I holding onto that aren’t serving me?✅ Am I making choices based on my own values or on fear of judgment?✅ Where in my life do I need to stand firm in my worth?

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